TheJourneyisBetter,Together.

In this honest and hopeful reflection, John shares how his faith has shifted from control to trust, from building fences to opening doors. Written for those deconstructing, doubting, or rebuilding their faith, this blog invites readers to consider a new way forward—one rooted in grace, curiosity, and the wide welcome of Jesus.

We don’t always talk about it, but life is harder than it seems. Behind every smile and highlight reel, there are real struggles most people never see. In this blog, I share a personal story, a reminder that you're not alone, and why being honest about the hard stuff might just be the key to healing and connection.

Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like life should be better than it is? You’re not alone. This blog is a real, honest reminder that even in the chaos, life is better than it seems — if we slow down enough to see it.

Some days? I just don’t got this. And maybe… neither do you. That doesn’t mean we’re failing. It means we’re human. And the good news? God’s got what we don’t.

It’s easy to say “God loves me.” It’s harder to live like it’s true. But here’s the thing—your worst day, your most unlovable moment, your deepest doubt? You’re still loved.

After reading a blog questioning whether Pope Francis is in heaven, I couldn’t help but wrestle with how often we overcomplicate faith. In this post, I share why I believe the doorway to grace is much simpler than we make it — it’s not about perfect understanding or a flawless checklist. It’s about loving God, even when we don’t have it all figured out. Love first. Understanding later.

At a simple birthday party pickup, an unexpected conversation reminded me that real connection happens when we’re honest about the struggles we usually hide. Life, parenting, and relationships are messy—but none of us are alone. This blog shares a real-life moment that proves we’re all just figuring it out together.

You are not your title. Not your to-do list. Not your performance. You’re loved—even when you’re resting. Even when you’re not producing. Even when it all feels like it’s falling apart.

To those who have walked a weary journey like mine, I wanted to share…When doubt and struggles overshadow your journey, I'm thankful there are moments to remind you of the hope that is to come.

What a Therapy Dog and a Brave Teen Taught Me Today

An honest, heartfelt reflection from me on how my life goals have shifted—from chasing legacy to choosing love. A story about parenting, presence, and what really matters.